Your Inner Voice: Your Biggest Advantage… or Liability

By Jorge Capestany, RSPA Master Professional & PTR International Master Professional


If you’ve ever felt like your game isn’t improving, even though you’re putting in the time, you’re not alone.

In fact, this is one of the most common frustrations in pickleball.

Players practice… They play matches… They even take lessons…

And yet…

👉 They feel stuck.

So what’s really going on?


The Problem Isn’t Effort… It’s Direction

Most players assume that improvement is just about putting in more time.

But that’s not how it works.

Because if you keep doing the same things over and over…

👉 You’ll keep getting the same results.

This is what we call “comfortable repetition.”

You’re playing… but not really improving.


Why Most Players Avoid What Actually Helps

Here’s the truth:

Improvement requires doing things that feel uncomfortable.

That might mean:

  • Missing more shots at first

  • Trying new techniques

  • Slowing things down to focus on form

  • Practicing specific situations instead of just playing games

And that’s where most players struggle.

Because in the short term…

👉 Improvement can actually make you worse.


The “Temporary Setback” Trap

Let’s say you decide to change your technique.

At first:

  • Your timing is off / Your consistency drops / You lose more points.

And what do most players do?

They quit.

They go back to what feels comfortable.

And just like that…

👉 The improvement cycle resets.


The Players Who Actually Improve Do This Differently

The players who break through understand one key idea:

👉 Short-term struggle leads to long-term success.

They expect:

  • A temporary drop in performance

  • Some frustration

  • A learning curve

  • But they stay with it.

And that’s what separates them.


How to Break Out of the Cycle

If you feel stuck, here’s what to do:

1. Be Willing to Get Worse (Temporarily)

Accept that improvement comes with a dip before the rise.

2. Train With Purpose

  • Don’t just play games, work on specific skills and situations.

3. Stick With Changes Long Enough

  • Give yourself time to adapt before judging results.

4. Measure the Right Things

Instead of wins and losses, track:

  • Better contact

  • Improved positioning

  • Smarter decisions


The Importance of Your Inner Voice

One of the biggest mistakes players make is letting their inner dialogue run unchecked.

Turning a single mistake into a running commentary of negativity.

Instead of talking to themselves like a coach

“What adjustment do I need to make?”,

They slip into becoming their own worst critic

“I always mess this up”.

The inner critic focuses on judgment and past failures, which tightens you up and kills confidence.

The inner coach, on the other hand, is calm, objective, and focused on solutions, guiding you forward instead of tearing you down.

The key isn’t eliminating self-talk… It’s upgrading it.


The video below comes from one of the courses we have in the Lab on Pickleball Drills HQ.

It discusses the importance of your inner dialogue and the concepts of Self 1 and Self 2.


Final Thoughts…

Improvement in pickleball isn’t always a straight line.

It’s more like:

👉 Taking a step back… so you can take 2 steps forward.

The players who understand this don’t panic when things get worse…

They recognize it as part of the process.

And that’s exactly why they keep improving—while others stay stuck.


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